How Your Relationship with Your Hairstylist Affects Your Hairdo

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Your relationship with your hairstylist plays a big role in the outcome of your hairdo and can make all the difference when it comes to having a positive salon experience and a hairstyle that you’re happy with.

relationship-with-hairstylistRelationship Status: You Change Your Hairstylist After Every Visit

So why do you change your hairstylist after every visit? Do you like to experiment with different people and salons or are you afraid of them getting to know you? Changing your hairstylist so frequently is a bit like playing Russian roulette. Even if you insist on a full consultation every time, chances are that you won’t be totally happy with your new hairstyle. Why? Because it takes time to build a relationship with your hairstylist where they will begin to know you, your wants, needs, lifestyle, and time issues as well as what you actually like and don’t like. Whatever your needs may be, if you are planning to chop them down, we offer the best short hair cuts for women.

It’s a common fact that the first visit to a new salon/stylist is not going to produce you with the best hairstyle possible. This doesn’t mean that you won’t be happy with your new look, only that it will get better with some tweaking and adjusting, or “fine-tuning” as we call it, from the feedback that you provide your stylist on your next visit.

next-hair-salon-visitAlso, they can see how your hair settles into its new shape and how it grows out. The trick is to find someone that you are comfortable with, who looks like they will stick around for a while, and then stay with them. You don’t need to divulge all of your personal affairs, only what’s important from the hairstyling point of view.

Here are some positive points that show why longer-term hairstylist relationships are the best:

  • A better understanding of your needs wants and lifestyle requirements
  • A better understanding of your hair and how it’s cut or coloured best
  • A better understanding of how your hair settles down and the way that it grows back
  • Better knowledge about your taste and what you like and dislike
  • In time, being a part of your hair’s history, good and bad

You can relax and enjoy the service by feeling safe and trusting what’s going on. There is a kind of therapy or unqualified counseling sessions that go on between hairstylists and their clients in salons all over the world. Your hairstylist is usually the best person to tell and dump all of your problems to. They are at arm’s length, not too close to revealing your secrets and yet far enough to listen to your problems and speak to you as a friend.

counseling-sessions-with-hairstylistsThey are a bit like bartenders; you know they have heard it all before. Also, we believe that the atmosphere and surroundings induce a feeling of relaxation and peace, hence encouraging this type of behavior. It’s the perfect place to have a chat or catch up on the latest gossip.

  • How It Affects Your Hairdo

By having a short relationship with your hairstylist, you rob yourself of ending up with a style that will suit your individual needs, lifestyle, and tastes. Such a brief relationship wouldn’t get the time it needs to blossom and wouldn’t allow you to bond with your hairstylist and let them get to know you and your needs, which means they wouldn’t be able to provide the right hairstyle for you.

You need to find and stick to one hairstylist that you feel comfortable with and who will listen and understand your particular needs. It could take several visits to get everything right so give them a chance.

Relationship Status: You Change Your Hairstylist Often

So, why do you change your stylist often? Do you find that they only look after you as a new client and become complacent after a few visits? If this is the case you could try telling them to keep their guard up. That should generally be good enough to keep them on their toes.

time-to-change-your=hair-stylistDo you feel that they lack new ideas or that perhaps you have given them a few times to get it right but they don’t improve? That’s a fair enough reason to try and find someone else, but beware, every time you find a new hairstylist you have to start all over again. Also, if you have this happening to you all the time there is a pattern here that you need to have a closer look at.

Do any of the following things from the list below apply to you?

  • Are your expectations (perceived reality) about what a hairstylist should do and offer fair and correct?
  • Do you give them enough information about yourself, your lifestyle wants, and needs for them to work off?
  • Are you judging them by their appearance and personality instead of focusing on what they do to your hair?
  • Are you perhaps frightened about getting too close emotionally to your stylist, or have you shared personal information with them that you now regret saying?
  • Do you just like the thrill and excitement that comes with meeting a new person?

hair-stylist-personal-checksHave you had a regular stylist that got up and left town overnight? Are you now always just deciding to leave them before they leave you? Is it a relationship thing where you expect more than what they are willing to offer? If you are planning to go for a bold look, we offer dreadlock styles for men.

Whatever the reason is for you changing hairstylists frequently, you are being robbed of the opportunity to establish a better long-lasting relationship, one that you would undoubtedly benefit from.

long-lasting-relationship-with-haristylistsThe more that your stylist gets to know you, the better they can provide professional hair care one on one to service your needs. Finally, you should test the boundaries and ask yourself the hard questions above to find out what it is that is not right. Remember, you can’t change anything unless you acknowledge it and accept it first.

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  • How It Affects Your Hairdo

You are not getting the best results and making it harder for yourself when you change hairstylists every second or third visit. You need to understand why you change your stylist so frequently and find one to stay with for a while.

Relationship Status: You Have Had the Same Hairstylist for 1 Year or More

It’s good to see that you have now had the same stylist for more than 1 year. This would suggest that you have found a hairstylist that you are happy and feel comfortable with. This would also suggest that you are what we call in the industry a “faithful” client, one that understands the importance and benefits of lasting relationships with your hair stylist. That’s all good, but are you totally satisfied with all that your hairstylist has to offer?

same-hairstylist-for-one-year-or-moreDoes your current hairstylist:

  • Offer new hairstyle ideas?
  • Check to see if you were happy with the last hairstyle on the next visit?
  • Give you a run down on your hair’s condition and general state without you asking for it?
  • Tell you about any new products, techniques, or ideas that could apply to you?
  • Give the same amount of consultation time every visit?

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If you have answered no to any of the above questions, then there is a chance that your hairstylist is becoming complacent. If this is the case, you need to ask for some extra talk time when booking your next appointment to go over these points. It certainly makes more sense to fix any problems in your current hairstylist relationship before contemplating a new one.

fix-common-complaints-current-hairstylistThere are just so many benefits to having a regular stylist. If, however, your stylist isn’t giving you the attention you know that you should be getting, try talking with them first. If that doesn’t fix things, then it’s time to consider finding a new stylist.

  • How It Affects Your Hairdo

The advantages of long-term hairstylist relationships are many. Just be sure to keep up the hairstyle talk for the first 10 minutes on every visit. This will eliminate complacency creeping in.

advantages-long-term-hairstylist-relationshipsRelationship Status: You Have Had the Same Hairstylist for More Than 5 Years

It’s totally awesome that you have now had the same hairstylist for the last 5 years or more. Both you and your stylist should consider yourselves lucky that neither party has moved away. It’s so very reassuring to be able to go and see the same hairstylist for this long. I bet they have become a friend to you and quite possibly to all of your family now. They obviously keep you happy and make you feel comfortable and relaxed with them.

keep-same-hairstylist-for-more-yearsThere are just so many benefits to having a regular stylist. Probably the downside to having a hairstylist for this long, and yes unfortunately there is a downside, is if either of you ever leaves or move away, or they stop doing hair. It can be catastrophic for you. Speaking through experience, this is one of the harder things for clients to cope with.

professional-stylistsFinding a new hairstylist that you are happy with after so long, and here is the important thing, one that you are still happy with, is kind of like leaving your partner for someone else when you still love your partner.

The other downside that can occur to long-lasting hairstylist/client relationships is where you begin to just receive the same thing the same way every visit. Now that’s okay because you don’t have to think about anything new, you can stay inside your comfort zone and remain relaxed. But, you should still consider changing your hairstyle from time to time just as you did on your first visit to your stylist all of those years ago.

long-lasting-client-relationshipsNow, if you are not totally happy with your stylist, then you need to sit down and have a talk with them, listing the reasons why. It would be a crying shame to just throw away 5 years or more with them without doing this first. As strange as this may sound, we have found over the years that some clients prefer the former option rather than letting their stylist know what they are unhappy about for fear of hurting their feelings.

talk-to-your-hair-stylistAs a last resort, if speaking with your stylist does not work, then unfortunately it’s best that you bite the bullet and move on to find a new one.

  • How It Affects Your Hairdo

With such a long history and good relationship, you should definitely receive the right hairstyle for you. You obviously have trust and respect for your stylist after all these years with them and you should be able to sit down with them and show them if you want a change without any problems at all.

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FAQs

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This answer depends on your lifestyle, hairs length, and hair type.

For example, if you live a sporty lifestyle you will need to shampoo your hair every single day and so will need to consider a hairstyle and home haircare regime that will help facilitate this.

On the other hand, if you work inside out of the elements, have normal to dry hair and scalp on short hair, you should only be shampooing it 2-3 times per week.

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There was a time not so long ago that every young lady (sorry guys no disrespect) was told to brush their hair 100 times in the morning and another 100 times at night with a good natural bristle brush.

This was very important for long hair types as it ensured that

  • Any knots or tangles where brushed out
  • That sebum from the scalp was distributed to the mid length and ends, protecting the hair with natural oils.
  • The brushing on the scalp created good circulation to the follicle to help with better hair growth.

The art of brushing hair was sadly lost back in the eighties and nineties when perms and brushing were not a good match.

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It is a good idea to get your hair trimmed by your hairdresser every 4-6 weeks.

Regular trims ensure that;

  • The shape of your haircut will be maintained easily
  • Any damaged or split ends can be cut off, visit by visit so that they don’t creep further up the hair shaft.
  • You will be able to style your hair far more easily
  • It’s an opportunity to treat yourself on a more regular basis.
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The short answer is NO. The longer answer is no don’t razor cut wavy or curly hair unless you are wanting it to frizz, look wiry, like it has split ends. The reason is that razor cutting slices hair on an angle, and also removes only some (not all) of the hair, and when hair is wavy or curly and razor cut, the shorter pieces with less weight spring up between longer pieces making a bushy, frizzy effect.

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The thing about bangs is most people have tried them at least once in their lifetime and have either had a great experience or a really bad one.

What’s important to remember about bangs is that they do have an effect on hairstyles and other important elements such as;

  • Straight across bangs halve the vertical length in a person face shape, thus they suit people with oblong, diamond, or narrow face types.
  • Curtain bangs with a middle part actually add length to face shapes, suiting round and wide faces best.
  • Side swept angled bangs are great on angular face shape such as square and broader jawbones.
  • Straight across bangs draw attention to the eyes.
  • Bangs are an easy way to do something different without having a complete full makeover.
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There a number of ways to make straight hair change to curly or wavy, however they can be grouped into two categories.

  1. Non-Permanent, using thermal appliances such as hot irons, curling tongs, hot rollers, or curling the hair when it’s wet on round shapes (rollers overnight) will change the texture of hair when it dries. These new curls on your once straight hair will only last until moisture gets inside your hair shaft and is why you are told to stay away from humidity when you have your hair curled. The change in your straight hair to curls is on the Hydrogen bonds only (outside) and so not permanent.
  2. Permanent, using chemicals that go into your hair and rearrange the sulphur bonds, known as perming. Straight hair is stretched and moulded around a roller, chemically altered, and then set in place in new formations or curves, round shapes that we know as curls. This can be made straight again by using chemicals to drag the hair straight again, however moisture or simply washing your hair will not make permed curly hair straight on its own.
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There is no right or wrong answer here, fine hair can look amazing short with stylish one length looks and bangs, but it can also look great when it’s straight and all the one length, precision cut. Wavy and curly fine hair types can also look great short or long.

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Layer cuts on curly hair are great at defining curls, allowing movement and bounce from eliminating weight. Layering curly hair is definitely good, and all about adding shape to create a hairstyle that will suit the individual.

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The answer to this often-asked question is that

  • Long curly hair tends to behave better due to how gravity weighs it down, making it tame and looking amazing, however it does take more work to keep it healthy and looking great
  • Short curly hair can look incredible when the right haircut has been created on the right face shape, personality, and that considers a person’s lifestyle factors. Short curly hair is also easy to style and maintain.
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Curly hair comes in 3 ranges that include

  1. Loose curls
  2. Tight curls
  3. Coily curls
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Straight hair can be cut in many ways, using a variety of haircutting techniques such as blunt cutting, sliced edges, chipping, razor cutting, layering, tapering, and much more, all on short, medium, and long hair lengths.

Straight hair is easy to work with, but consideration must be given to how it falls naturally, working with the amount of hair, all against a person face shape, lifestyle, and personality

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If you have fine hair you should avoid some of the following things:

  • Using shampoos and conditioners that have too much moisture in them as this will make your fine hair flat and dull.
  • Don’t overuse hair color and chemicals as this will damage your hair
  • Only use heat styling aids occasionally on your fine hair otherwise this will lead to damage.
  • If you have straight fine hair, avoid getting layers particularly if your hair is medium or long.
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There are many hairstyles that work perfectly for fine hair types, making the hair looker thicker, more solid, even without any body and these include:

  • Short Precision Bob Cuts
  • Wedge Cuts, or Pixie Bobs as they are also known.
  • Angled Bobs
  • Geometric Bobs
  • Bob Cuts with bangs
  • Mid length bangs
  • Blunt cuts
  • Deep side part
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Getting the best haircut for coarse hair depends on the texture and condition of the hair. Further to this, the best haircut for coarse hair also depends on a person’s face shape, personality, lifestyle, and other important factors.

The best haircut for coarse hair is one that helps keep it in shape without too much work or effort.

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Great haircuts for straight coarse hair include some of the following

  • Short crops
  • Pixie cuts
  • Layer Cuts
  • Razor cut Shags
  • Graduated Bobs
  • Layered Lobs
  • Classic long stacked layer cuts
  • Choppy cuts
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The best haircuts for coarse wavy hair vary depending on the length of the hair, and some of these include;

  • Short Crops
  • Short Pixie cuts
  • Short layer cuts
  • Medium Lobs and Shags (avoid razor cutting)
  • Medium layered Bobs
  • Long layered hairstyles
  • Wavy Curtain Bangs
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Curly hair that is coarse needs to be carefully cut all starting with a plan based around the type of curl, length of the hair, and then a person’s face shape, lifestyle, home hair care options, and available time.

Some great haircuts for curly hair include

  • Short shaped afros
  • Short layer cuts
  • Undercuts
  • Medium layered Bobs
  • Layered Lobs
  • Long layer cuts
  • Curly curtain bangs
  • Side swept bangs
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Naturally coarse wiry hair is what many people are born with unless you have damaged your hair from overusing chemicals, heat appliances, or the environment.

The hair can feel dry because of how the cuticle sticks out at 45 degree angles, and also because of this, it is easy for coarse curly hair to actually dry out.

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Yes, if you don’t cut off, remove the split ends they will travel up the hair shaft and cause more damage due to how the inside layer (the cortex) is exposed to all elements and the sun. Cutting split ends seals the hair, and is actually the best way to get longer hair because as it grows it won’t break off.

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many miracle treatments are on the market that claim to have properties that will seal your split ends, however I am here to tell you that they are of a cosmetic nature only, filling the hair with silicones mostly to make it look and feel better. While some of these products will indeed help protect the hair from the elements, the split end needs to be amputated, cut off and removed as the best cause of action.

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